tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70249267578336567.post3930302790559166308..comments2023-07-25T05:27:29.888-04:00Comments on Measuring Out My Life in Coffee Spoons: So here's a little honesty.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09509262144920198122noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70249267578336567.post-11571115401288563692011-02-24T23:06:42.509-05:002011-02-24T23:06:42.509-05:00So, as your older, wiser cousin (of 51 weeks), her...So, as your older, wiser cousin (of 51 weeks), here's my 2 cents:<br /><br />Yup. Totally. I've been single for more than 3 years now; I understand completely all of the things you said. Especially the wine part. <br /><br />But what I lean on is this: I look at the relationships that surround me, and think, "do I want that relationship? Do I want that man in my life?" And 90% of the time, the answer is no. Either the relationship I'm looking at is unhealthy, or the man in the situation is completely obnoxious and/or boring. And every year, another couple breaks up anyways (even the marriages).<br /><br />I say, it is far, far better to be single because you haven't found the right person, than to be in a relationship with the wrong person. We all know how fabulous you are, so duh. Of course it's going to take longer to find someone equally as fabulous. <br /><br />Until then, I totally recommend sidereel.com for illegally streamed episodes of Entourage and Weeds, learning how to bake (via Joy of Cooking and RIchmond Receipts) and pretty much any Argentine malbec. :) Oh, and texting/calling me more frequently.fhaleyfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18289530939204995213noreply@blogger.com